May 2, 2011
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I shouldn’t be posting from work. I shouldn’t be posting at all when I feel like this. But it can’t be helped. I am having one of those moments when I feel absolutely desperate – like nothing is right or will ever be, like there is nothing to look forward to or even back on to make me feel better. I don’t even have the luxury of torment. At this moment I see a life littered only with petty annoyance and falling expectation.
Obviously, the last was some measure of hyperbole – lest some reader start down the “you don’t know what it is to suffer people are sick and dying and starving and oppressed” road. I don’t want torment in answer to whatever this is – but it pains me I can feel so very badly without some quantifiable reason.
Sometimes, when I get this way, I tell myself, “Self, everyone has days like this.” If the internet has taught me anything (jury’s out) it would be that there isn’t an emotion, a thought, an experience I can have that hasn’t been felt, thought or experienced a million times before. No special snowflakes, we. But today! Today this hopelessness rushes over me – my chest is tight, my eyes constantly full of tears – and I wonder. What if this really is madness?
I need some kind of break from this – and I begin to care very little how I might achieve it.
Comments (4)
if your expectations are still falling, by definition you’re not there yet. muahaha…IN YOUR FACE.
with love, of course. and hope that you feel better soon.
Although I know what you mean, about writing when you feel like this, sometimes it helps to put all your thoughts somewhere. I’m sorry today’s not so good. I know the feeling you describe so well, and I wish I could do something to ease all of it a little.
I just got to Victoria. (My mom and I are spending the week there.) Email me your address and I will send you a postcard from the ocean.
Love and good thoughts,
h.
This too shall pass…
(Your not alone & your completely normal to have days like these-I do!)
Talking it out & sharing it out loud here is the best thing you can do-Unload it. It is too heavy to carry…
Always reading and listening…
xox
j a n e
Oh boy. I feel this. I have your back sister! <3